Good Bye Good Friend: The Loss of Philia or We're Just Two Straight Dudes Having Dinner
Used according to Creative Commons image by alabos life No alterations made to this image other than resizing. "We're just two straight dudes having dinner together" my friend sheepishly said as the waitress sat us down at our table. It was an innocent and joking comment from my friend that in some sense was meant to be taken lightly, but at the same time meant to express to those around us that we were indeed not homosexuals on a date. However, my friend felt the need to make this comment on more than one occasion when I have met up with him for a quick bite when I was in his area of town. Even more recently, I grabbed a burger with a different friend who managed to convince the waitress to give him a free milkshake, and my friend jokingly asked for two straws for the free milkshake: one for him and one for her. It took a moment for her to realize what was said because she was at first excited, then immediately disappointed: excited because she thought we wer...